Engaged? Here are our first steps after yes!
Savour & Celebrate with Intention
There’s a moment right after the question, when you say the most joyful “yes” of your life, where the world suddenly feels softer. Time slows. Your heart races. You look at each other and you both know everything has just changed.
Before the whirlwind of planning, spreadsheets, Pinterest boards and dress appointments… comes something far more precious:
letting it sink in.
So here are the first, gentle steps to take after saying yes, the steps that let you savour, celebrate and begin this chapter with intention.
It’s Happened!!! Step 1: Make it yours before you share it with anyone else.
So… he’s popped the question! Before anything else, take a moment together to let it truly hit you. This is huge and so exciting!… it deserves a little pause just for the two of you.
Whether you’re stood in the middle of the countryside, curled up at home, or caught completely off-guard in the best possible way, stay in that moment for a beat. This is your very first memory as an engaged couple and you’ll look back on it for years to come.
Step 2: Tell your Loved Ones first
Before you jump onto Instagram or fire off excitable group chats, take a little time to share the news with your nearest and dearest. Whether it’s a phone call, a FaceTime moment full of happy tears, or a surprise doorstep visit, telling them personally makes it all feel that bit more special and ensures no one important finds out from your feed first!
…and if you’re wondering how to announce your engagement in style, stay tuned, the team will be sharing fun and creative announcement ideas in later in the week.
Step 3: Check Ring Fit & Insurance
A practical step that’s incredibly easy to overlook when you’re still floating on cloud nine, but such an important one!
• Make sure your ring feels comfortable and secure throughout the day
• If it’s a little loose or snug, arrange a quick resizing so it fits perfectly
• Look into ring insurance sooner rather than later; it’s affordable and genuinely worth it
Your engagement ring is one of the most meaningful pieces of jewellery you’ll ever wear and taking a few simple steps now ensures it stays safe, protected and ready to sparkle through every moment ahead. It’s not the most glamorous part of getting engaged, but it’s definitely one you’ll thank yourself for later.
Step 4: Plan Your Engagement Celebration!
Before planning the wedding itself, many couples love hosting something smaller, a drinks night, dinner party, countryside gathering, or a relaxed celebration with the people who matter most.
If you’re imagining somewhere charming, intimate and close by, our cosy village Estate pub, is the perfect setting.
Whether you want a private dining experience, a relaxed evening celebration, or a full private hire event, it’s a wonderful way to bring everyone together to toast your engagement.
But remember, there’s no rush, take time to ask yourselves:
• Do we want something intimate or lively?
• Are we celebrating now, next month, or later?
• Would we love a cosy pub gathering or a big countryside party?
To answer all these questions, follow along as Georgia reveals the perfect party planning tips.
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📅 Book your visit today and chat with Georgia about all your exciting plans, we cannot wait to help bring them to life.
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